Aside

I will marry the first Joan Jett who shows up here with an eight of Strongbow and some Indian takeaway!

Have an fab weekend people!

~ kei
10 July 2015

Homophobia Sneaks in Everywhere: From Mississippi to Oregon

I’m a reblogging fool today and because the messages I’m sharing are so important to get out there. Please take a moment to read. ~ kei

Social Justice For All

LGBT Folk Not Welcome LGBT Folk Not Welcome

I could feel my heart being crushed at the news that the Republican Governor of Mississippi, Phil Bryant, signed a bill on Friday that makes it legal to discriminate against people in the LGBT community.  While not surprising coming from Mississippi, it is nonetheless disappointing. Not the first and probably not the last time the state of Mississippi is on the wrong side of history–this is not a state known for equity and equality.

Sadly, closer to home, I realize that the purported progressive Portland, Oregon hosts many homophobes as well. Last week, it came to light that the owner of The Moreland Farmers Pantry, in Sellwood, a Portland neighborhood, spewed her homophobic views. Owner Chauncy Childs posted this on her Facebook page about gays and same-sex marriage: “…a tiny minority is dictating a change of our social structure.”  I guess a population wanting equality and equity needs to be…

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Death Of A Muse

When she finally retired, it wasn’t to a lot of fanfare or acclaim. As a matter of fact, I think its fair to say, not many of her fans really noticed. She’d been absent from the scene for so long. Although she never said anything to me about it directly, I knew. In spite of the long distance nature of our relationship right at that time, we were close and yes, I knew.
So did the stalker that killed her career and very nearly ruined her at the same time.
We knew that it went with the territory. People, artists in the public eye get this stuff all the time. I guess she was more accustomed to it, having been in the biz since she was in her teens but for me…? This was all new and it was scary. Especially as the years rolled on and it became easier and easier for every crackpot who wanted to play with the band, or deranged female who thought my Love’s songs were for them; to find her, us.
We or one of the management would notice the signs and try to stop it but with the advent of the internet… The psycho avalanche was unstoppable.
We tried to stem the damage but copyrights and artistic content, it seems can’t be kept safe from those who want to thieve them. For me, that was terrible. No one will ever know who I am and I don’t really care but I contributed in my own right to what she gave to the world. We co-wrote a lot of material, I play bass on several tracks and I sang backing vocals on every album.
Do you remember “Black and Blue”? She wrote that for me. “Black is the colour of my true love’s hair, emerald eyes and mermaid stare.” We were at the lake, sitting round a dying bonfire… the music just flowed.
I stumbled over some chick’s postings where she claimed that this song and several other of J’s work had been written for her, claimed to be my love’s muse. She had pictures of my love posted, with me cropped out. I thought I would die…
What kind of psycho thinks or does shit like that?
J was furious. She talked to her manager, publisher, even got in touch with our lawyers but it was too no avail. Everywhere she turned, there was someone trying to get to her. It was affecting her, me, the kids and… her work.
Slowly, she began withdrawing. Buying back the rights where she could, I didn’t find out about that for a while. Removing and having removed; as many traces as she could of what had once been her first and perhaps best love. And all I could do was watch as the person I loved lost a vital piece of themselves. It was like watching her never-ending murder with handcuffs and a gag on… They might just as well have been killing me too.
Eventually, the contracts stopped coming and our friends and legit fans stopped asking.
When anyone from the press calls, I field the questions with, “She’s on sabbatical right now.” But I know and so does she that she’s retired.
For a while, I thought and hoped that she could continue on for the sake of everyone who so loved her and her work. I know that her words touched so many, helped so many when they thought no one else could. I keep the fan letters in a black lacquer box that I bought somewhere on our last tour.
All it took was one, one deranged female who wouldn’t stop stalking her.
I wish I could ask that piece of garbage what was in her head. Why would she ever look at a complete stranger and think it was ok to impose her psychotic fantasies on them?
I would like to tell her that she killed the best and most beautiful part of a human being who meant the world to the world, to their family and… to me.
Once in a while, she sits out on the deck, notebook on her lap, chewing her pen. I know that the words still flow, still beautiful, still entrancing but the guitar beside her remains untouched. Once she’d hidden herself from the world, she decided to remain hidden.
The words are all gone now, The Muse only lives on vinyl and parchment…

~ ket
28 February 2012

Originally published in A Grain Of Truth I by Karin Bole Tupper

Disheveled

The murder of crows outside my window, sounds more like a massacre
And the right side of my bed still holds the imprint of her

Distant wail of sirens on the highway is gonna drive me insane
Must be on the way here to fix the car crash in my brain

Nothing gives me comfort, nothing brings me sleep
Thoughts just keep on churning, drag me down into the deep

He said, she said. Why did you do that. What does it mean?
Moreover, why do I care so much about someone I’ve never seen

Just as sleep tries to reclaim me, as my thoughts begin to calm
Your image rises up before me, a torrid kiss and then you’re gone

(C) KbT
9 February 2014

Murder of Crows

Black… And Blue III

I do not wish to bind you, if you don’t wish to be bound

If you find you need me, you know where I’ll be found

Somewhere in your dreaming, I will wait without a sound

I haven’t asked for anything, I’ve given all I have freely

Seems that wasn’t enough for you, for that, I’m sorry

You’ve come and gone so often, it’s time for you to see

That loving is a two way street, and I can’t be holding on

To someone who only talks of love, when she’s writing a song

So next time you come knocking Babe, you’ll find that I’m long gone

Juliette

She says she loves me and I want to believe
But we’re sitting in a train station
And I’m watching her leave

She says she needs me and touches my face
But then glances at her cellphone
And she picks up her suitcase

She says she wants me and it’ll be all right
But she’s gone on tour again
And I’m alone in the night

She says all the right words, to make me stay
But this world will not accept us
And now I must fade to grey

Black and Blue

Black is the colour of my true love’s hair
In the nighttime, by the firelight
Her eyes so green, mermaid stare

And every song, she sings for me
In her arms, I can truly be
Chained my heart, I’m never free
Sweet Juliette, come back for me

Black is the colour of another highway
Under her wheels, by the moonlight
Another small town gig, another day

And every song, she sings for me
In my arms, she can always be
Untamed her heart, completely free
Just Juliette, Juliette and Me

When the world’s done judging
She can be with me…