Hiatus

Hmm… Well that was a bit of temper wasn’t it?

Fact is, I need a break from WordPress. It’s been close to four years, ninety percent of which was spent managing my once fiancé, the Narcissist Poet, our families and the machinations of a  boat load of Apaths invented and real, that he was continually acquiring.

One of them continues to attempt covering up her shitty behaviour by slandering me to other poets on WP. How do I know? One of you told me she does, worse, some believe it.

So.

I’ve been asked to contribute an article about the Survivor’s perspective after escaping a Narcissistic relationship. The article will be published in a new book being published by a respected clinician in the field and I’ll be detailing events and my ongoing recovery in the chapter that I provide.

I’m honoured. My intention has always been to shine a light on this little known and widely misunderstood pathology and I intend to give it my full attention. To that end, I’ll be gone for a while. Eclectic Unconfined has gone private for the duration, all else will be moved to the back burner while I write, regroup and reassess.

My friends will be able to reach me via email as always and for a perspective on how Narcissism can affect your life, reading my blog from the early days on may show you. The initial love, the  creeping doubts, the dawning realization, the awful truth and implosion and sadly, the ongoing fallout. I would have preferred that it had been private but we can’t choose who targets us, only how we pick up the pieces.

This post on Let Me Reach, promises to have a wealth of information to share for those of you who may be looking for answers for yourself, a friend or loved one.

~ kei
14 November 2015

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